Ahhh, yes. How did I forget about how he did this to the point I stopped wanting to make plans. #DontMakePlans

Knowing the Narcissist

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Why are we notorious for cancelling arrangements? You may have been looking forward all week to going out for dinner with us, or we sent a text in the message suggesting meeting up that evening for a drink only for a message to arrive an hour before hand explaining we cannot make it. I am not referring to those instances where we do not just turn up, but why is it that we make plans with you, be it a month in advance or just hours and we do so with enthusiasm and guarantees of being there, only to then cancel those arrangements?

          There is a central factor behind this behaviour. It is control. As you know, control is of huge importance to us. We once lacked control as the world turned against us and we must never allow that to happen. By exerting control, we gain the…

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